Rubiks Cube of Complexities

Attention please! Attention please! Don't dare to talk! Don't dare to sneeze! Don't doze or daydream! Stay awake! Your health, your very life's at stake! "Ho ho," you say, "they can't mean me." "Ha ha," we answer, "wait and see." ~Roald Dahl

Wednesday, May 07, 2008

Baby, Take Your Bow

I have completed my first year of college. Wow, I am growing up.

I find myself trapped in a dichotomy concerning my age and how I feel. One the one hand, I feel so young, only being a freshman, well, now a sophomore. I don't have that many real responsibilities. On the other hand, I feel like this year really stretched me emotionally, perhaps beyond what someone my age should have to feel. Oh well, I made it through, thanks be to God!

Reflections? Sure, I learned some stuff...
*Don't be too hasty to place people in categories. I don't know what they've endured in life.
*Everyone does not have to agree with me.
*Be tolerant, but not to the extent that I lose my sense of truth.
*No matter how impossible a situation seems, God will pull me through it (I knew this, but it can't hurt to have it reiterated).
*This is thanks to Vanessa: Find the humanity in your character. And in all people.
*I have to demand some things for myself, they're not just granted.
*I need to always be open to altering what I think about things, as long as my fundamental beliefs remain intact.
*No matter what else may become "home," home is always home, and family is always family.

Then there are the less deep things I learned...
*The proscenium arch is the name for that huge arch on the stage.
*It is best if you can avoid having three different rooms in one year.
*Cafeteria food is bad, even at college.
*It is possible to live out of your laundry hamper over Christmas break.
*Midnight runs to Wal-Mart for mistletoe are awesome.
*Some people did not grow up with musicals and family members who burst into song. Who knew?
*Keep your laptop away from drunk people (especially people who fall down a lot when they're drunk).
*You can get from third floor of Miege Hall to third floor of St. Mary Hall, using only the stairs, in four minutes if you walk as fast as me.
*A frisbee can be an alternative to divorce.

I hope I learn a lot more deep stuff next year...